Thursday, July 2, 2009

Today's My Birthday

photo credit: Tea Cake Bake Shop

Today I cross over from my twenties into my thirties. A smooth transition that I happily embrace. Although...I did have a dream last night that I was the female version of Benjamin Button. No lie. Wonder what the underlying meaning of that dream was?! Ha! It followed by another dream of me being in a field of Sees Candies. I was just about to get some raspberry creams when I awoke to the false reality. So not right.

This past year has brought me so many blessings. Mr. Wonderful and I bought a brand new home, we had an exquisite and unforgettable wedding, we honeymooned in two amazing places and made special memories there...and the latest news to share is...we're expecting a baby!!

We've been married almost 14 weeks and I'm 12 weeks pregnant. Personally, I believe we brought back a permanent souvenir from our 2 week honeymoon, but the Dr. says we likely conceived the week after we returned. I honestly didn't think we {well, technically, I} would get pregnant so soon {heck, it took the eldest Duggar and his wife 5 months to conceive}; apparently I'm married to a sharp shooter! I've been given the due date of January 13th - we, and our parents, are elated! We broke the exciting news to our mothers on Mother's Day; the timing was perfect.

While I am overjoyed to be carrying a little miracle inside of me, I have been severely sick with the worst "morning/noon/night sickness" imaginable. Thankfully, I don't have to work during this exasperating time. I've lost 17 pounds so far because of the nausea and vomiting that I deal with on a daily basis. Every day I pray for relief and try to maintain faith that it will eventually come. I've tried everything that has been recommended to me by others - nothing has helped the sickness to subside. The Dr. has put me on three different types of medications, trying to find the one that will work for me - only one of them brings about mild, and very temporary, relief. I've even had to be hospitalized once. They say things will ease up by the end of the first trimester - I'm praying so. Some women go through a majority, and even sometimes their entire pregnancy, coping with severe sickness - yet they all say that once the baby is born, all is forgotten. Really?? Forgotten?? I have a pretty good memory!! Ha!

Needless to say, this is why I haven't been tending to this blog daily. Because of how sick I have been, nearly all day (every day), is spent in bed. I can't wait to return to my old self.

Thank you to all of you who have shared in my happiness of becoming a Mrs. and now in my joy of becoming a Mommy!

Wishing all of you a fun-filled and safe 4th of July weekend!

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Keepin' It Spicy

I intended to take these dice with us on our honeymoon but they didn't make it into the suitcase. Not to worry, they'll come out of the packaging soon enough...


Found at...the Dollar Store!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

I Have Some Explaining to Do. I Know.

It may appear that I have taken somewhat of a hiatus from this blog since I haven't been posting daily liked I used to. Things will make sense next week when I thoroughly explain the reason for why my postings haven't been consistent. Don't you hate it when people make you wait to hear what it is they have to say? How dare I do that. But bare with me...all will be said next week. Don't fret - it's nothing bad. Mr. Wonderful and I are still madly in love with each other and all that mushy jazz. Married life is {more than} gravy.

Changing topics...

Our wedding is currently being reviewed for publishing consideration with The Knot! Upon their request to see more pictures from our wedding, I informed them about this little blog where they could see more images from our special day. My fingers are crossed! Long before I got engaged I delved into many Knot magazines where I perused their pages gathering visual inspiration for my wedding that would "one day" be. It would be awesome to have our wedding grace the pages of their pretty mag!

They also happened to suggest that I may want to consider submitting my blog to the Wedding Channel blog awards {you'll notice the new badge in the upper right hand corner}. If you'd like to nominate this blog, just click on the badge, find me in the list and let 'em know what you love about this site of mine!

I leave you with a pretty picture from our wedding day that you haven't seen yet - us outside of our venue with our wedding party...

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Our Wedding: Nigerian Music & Attire

It was important to incorporate Mr. Wonderful's Nigerian culture into our wedding. Aside from American food, we served up Nigerian cuisine, exited the ceremony to Nigerian music, had my FIL's pastor {who flew from Nigeria} bless the food and the evening, had an eight piece Nigerian band {some members flew in from Chicago} and we changed into traditional Nigerian attire.

After the cake was cut, the Nigerian band took their place...

Mr. Wonderful and I were joined by his father on the dancefloor...

Soon after, we were joined by our guests...

The Nigerian band played back and forth with our DJ. Here is Mr. Wonderful's brother bustin' a move...

Everyone hit the dance floor and had so.much.fun!!!

Here is Mr. Wonderful's mother "spraying" me with money...


And here she is with her friends spraying her...

Mr. Wonderful and I went to change into our native attire about three hours into the reception. Here I am with my SIL, helping me change...

Hand in hand, making our way back into the reception...

Our second entrance...

Here is Mr. Wonderful's dad {in the turquoise hat} spraying us {notice how their hats match and have their initials embroidered in them, just in different colors - love it!}...

Trying to dance on beat to the Naija tunes!!

My hubby...

The spraying of the money went all night...

As the night came to an end, we danced our last dance to this Nigerian song.

It was time to head to the hotel...as husband and wife!


It was the best night of our lives...


Monday, June 15, 2009

Our Wedding: The Dessert Bar

Our dessert bar, full of an abundant amount of sugary treats, came together beautifully.

Thankfully, all of the bulk candy that I ordered arrived in time - and I ordered {more than} plenty!

I purchased all apothecary jars {$9.95 ea}, cylinder vases {$6.99 ea}, dessert plates {$35 for all 8}, etc. that you will see displayed on our dessert table.

It's time to showcase how things turned out...

To spruce up the table, I used silver dollar silk flowers and ostrich feathers...

Our dessert bar extended to two tables, and each treat was labeled...

We had a variety of delicious desserts for guests to choose from. Here are the petite fours {from the place where Mr. Wonderful and I had our first date}...



If you've been an avid reader of my blog for quite some time, then you know that I have a love for Sees Candies. Growing up in California, it was a candy store that I frequented often as a child {there's no other chocolate I like better}, therefore Sees just had to be present on our dessert tables {my Aunt Janice actually purchased all of the Sees Candy and shipped it from California to Atlanta. It was out in abundance because of her!}.




Other treats...




The pretty dessert napkins...


Close by the dessert table was also coffee and tea for those who wanted it...


I was in awe when I saw the dessert bar for the first time. As the pictures show, it came together beautifully and guests really enjoyed it!
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Monday, June 8, 2009

Our Wedding: The Bridesmaids Shoes

Just as we gave our groomsmen gifts that they could sport on the wedding day {Italian ties and Kenneth Cole Wallets}, we did the same for the bridesmaids - giving them a gift that they too could wear on the wedding day.

Sparing them the stress, and time, of finding a shoe that perfectly matched their dresses, we came across these beauties and bought a pair for each of the girls...

The color could not have been more perfect as they matched the dresses beautifully.



all photos: Karen Nickel Photography, except for photo 1, by Mr. Wonderful

Additional details: Dresses by Bill Levkoff. Shoes from Off Broadway Shoes.

Friday, June 5, 2009

Our Wedding: The Invitations

This post comes at nearly 12 midnight on Friday {muuuch later than the normal time that I post}, but I know that many of you also visit wedding blogs on the weekend so I thought that this post would still provide fresh content for the weekend browser.

With that said, allow me to finally showcase our wedding invitations. I absolutely love how they turned out. I provided a sneak peek here, but now it's time to reveal them in all their beauty.

I worked with a wonderful and talented designer out of California who flawlessly executed my vision. I provided her with a picture of a design that I found online and then I personally picked out everything from the paper to the ribbon...everything was customized. I guess you could say I was pretty particular when it came to the design of our invitation {I even sent the designer an image of how I wanted the outward envelopes to look} but she was wonderful to work with and patiently bared with me as I made ongoing changes to make our invitation just perfect. The end result was truly everything I wanted it to be.

Here is what the outside mailing envelope looked like...

{click on any picture below to enlarge!}

The inner envelope addressed the invitee.
The back of the mailing envelope....

And here they are. Our invitations...

Here is a close up of the outside of the invitation {notice the two Swarovski crystals}...

One more Swarovski crystal was also placed in the middle of the ribbon that held the RSVP card in place...

We had two different sets of RSVP cards made up. For family and guests {who traveled from afar}, their RSVP card included the mention of, and formal invitation to, our post wedding brunch. Rather than have an additional insert with the brunch information {thereby increasing the cost of our invitation}, I had our invitation designer simply add one more line to the RSVP card and provided guests with the brunch details in the out-of-town gift boxes.
photo credit: Mr. Wonderful

I loved the process of creating a one-of-a-kind invitation and seemingly, for me, it was less expensive than going through any of the well known wedding invitation companies.

For future brides, be sure to order extra invitations, and extra envelopes "just in case" and also be sure to put aside one of your wedding invitation sets for keepsake!